Saturday, June 2, 2018

The Existential Meow, or Bisquit's Guide to Life

During the reign of Cat Queen Heather I formed a habit of posting about cats with some reference to #TortieTuesday. Bisquit, however, was not a Tortie. She was biscuit-colored, mostly creamy white with pale orange-tan patches on top. I spelled her name with a Q to distinguish her from an earlier cat called Biscuit, and because she was pale-colored and gender-confused as a kitten (a Bisque-colored It), and because she did things she was told to quit, just for attention. She died during a glyphosate poisoning episode, shortly after Heather was born.

Bisquit hissed and spat at me twice before she decided she wanted to be a pet. I loved Bisquit from the moment I saw her. I couldn’t show her how much I loved her, though, because she suffered from the Deadly Sin of Envy. If anyone failed to make it clear that they were petting another cat first and most, Bisquit became jealous of that human and would not allow “her” human to pet other cats. She lost her favorite brother when they were four months old and spent the next four years seeming to want to be someone’s Favorite Cat. In any other household Bisquit would have been a fabulous once-in-a-lifetime pet. In my household, to her obvious regret, she was part of a family of social cats who were even more fabulous. She seemed much happier after bonding with a daughter who became a permanent resident, but she never quite overcame her tendency to jealous envy.

Bisquit always had a lot to say. Unlike several of her relatives, including her five-week-old great-great-grandkitten Serena, Bisquit did all the talking. Here is what I understood her to say.

The Purposes of Life:

1. To be a great hunter. Life is hunting. Leisure is hunting things you don’t want to eat. Status is being a better hunter than others. Death is being unable to hunt any more.

2. To eat and drink enough, and sleep in the sun. There is no such thing as too much hunting or too much snoozing. There is only not enough of one of those things if you give more attention to the other. It is, however, possible to eat too much. Apart from the unavoidable damage done by pregnancy, a thin shape is preferable to a fat shape.

3. To be adored. If you have a choice, it is better to be adored by the better hunters, since a better hunter is a more desirable person of any species. Therefore Adayahi is more desirable than Priscilla. However, all adoration should be eagerly lapped up.

4. To be beautiful. When not being actively adored by others, from time to time you should gaze into a patch of glass or water and contemplate Beauty.

5. To have beautiful kittens. Your own kittens eat before you do. Other kittens eat after. All kittens are, however, worth nurturing.

How to Spend the Day:

1. Hunt rabbits for most of the night.

2. Get tired. Snack on a sick bird. This gives you the energy to walk home and rest on some object that belongs to a human.

3. Exert your dominion over the humans by spitting bits of sick bird all over their object. They will make discontented noises and rub nasty chemicals over the object, but they want to know that that moldy old bird is the reason why you’re not feeling as perky as possible. By that time, of course, they will have served breakfast to your relatives. After eating your own share and, if possible, someone else’s, you will feel much better. The human will be relieved to see that you’re not sicker, and there is a chance that you will be petted. They make noises like “When will you ever learn?” Human noises have little meaning.

4. Meow whenever a human is present. They soon learn to distinguish the Meow of Active Distress from the Existential Meow, which basically means “You could be doing more to show adoration of me.”

a. If they have not recently offered you kibble, meow for kibble.

b. If they have, meow because it could have been fresher kibble.

c. If it was fresh kibble, meow because it wasn’t fish.

d. If it was tuna, meow because it wasn’t salmon.

e. If it was salmon, eat it up fast before someone else does, then meow because you’ve eaten too much too fast.

f. If it was food, anyway, and you’ve finished eating it, meow because the human is not petting you.

g. If the human is petting you, meow because it’s not sitting down, holding you on its knees, and rubbing behind your ears.

h. If the human is finishing its meal, meow because you’re too full to help eat the human’s meal.

No useful purpose is served by purring before everything that can possibly be accomplished by a meow has been accomplished.

5. Chastise any of your friends and relations who try to alienate the affections of a human who had been adoring you. You love the other cats, but you are entitled to the kind of attention Priscilla shows your uncle Mackerel and your sister Mogwai. Why not you? It couldn’t be anything you do! You are perfect, even if not quite as good a hunter as Mac or Mogwai. It is your perfect right to slap any other cat who unethically tries to alienate the affections of a human who was beginning to appreciate you, even if the human makes discontented noises when you slap other cats.

6. After breakfast, groom fur and snooze in sun.

7. Nag for a human to sit down and groom your fur all over again. Humans can reach those difficult spots, but the important thing is for your relatives, especially Mogwai, to see that you made the human sit down and fuss over you. If the target human is preoccupied with some silly human game like gardening, bringing in groceries, or moving furniture, meow loudly as you run under its feet, push things over, and hook claws into its knees. Eventually it will stop trying to walk past you. Even and especially if this is because it is clumsy old Oogesti lying under a broken piece of furniture, go to it at once. Purr and cuddle. There is no such thing as too much adoration.

8. If allowed to purr and cuddle, immediately notify everyone, especially Mogwai, that you have finally been accepted as the Ruling Queen and Favorite Cat. This may not be precisely true, since all of them seem to prefer one or more of your relatives, but sometimes we have to fake it until we make it. Do not, in any case, hurt a relative, or say anything for which you can’t be forgiven the next time they need you as part of a hunting party. Just lord it over them.

9. Always check all the neighbors’ traps, especially squirrel traps, even though they're a snug fit for a full-grown cat. Humans think it’s cute if a cat likes nuts. Eventually they will release you from the trap. Lap up their adoration, expressed in sounds like, “I must have trapped that wretched cat a hundred times.” (It’s the 139th time, actually. They can’t count.) Know that, if the owner of a trap fails to release you, at least Priscilla will be worrying about you, wandering up and down the road calling your name, while you are warm, dry, and looking forward to some extra adoration.

10. Nature has not provided anyone but you, your Beloved Mate, and your Adorable Kittens with biscuit-colored fur. This is because life is not fair. Try to correct nature’s shortcomings. Be generous. Coat everything, especially food, with your surplus hair. Everything looks better with biscuit-colored fur on it.

11. Observe what other people do. See if you can act out what they have done and report it to Priscilla. This usually leads to some form of entertainment, which may involve food, trophies for you to play with, or yelling and human drama. At least your humans know that anyone who says “That cat couldn’t possibly know” is guilty. Be the first to report how a hunter trespassed to shoot a deer out of season, how Mac charged at a big coy-dog to protect you, or how the Neighbor Kids sneaked into the shed. Point out clues, too, like a shed human hair or dropped cigarette end. Lilian Jackson Braun’s fictional cats were nothing beside you.


12. Lose no opportunity to type on Priscilla’s computer. Your typing looks just like hers, so one day the humans will admit they can read your messages as easily as their own. What difference could there be between “reurueiu” and “Buy salmon”?

13. Read books, too. You always see humans doing it, so there must be something useful inside books. Possibly crickets. Anyway, when you have pushed a book off the Moldy Books Shelf in the shed, a human who sees you open the book and paw through it will unmistakably express adoration every time. That humans can speak is the sort of thought that would occur to Mogwai's damaged brain--what would they say?--but there is no mistaking “I wish I had a picture of this” for their usual “Stop that” noises.

14. Sitting or lying down are ways humans communicate that they would like for you to perch on their chests, turn slowly around flicking your tail across their faces, and talk to them. All normal humans adore this behavior. If they’re preoccupied with silly human games like plumbing, wiring, or changing motor oil, letting a claw stick out while you massage the target human’s neck tends to take their minds off their worries. Humans are not good at expressing gratitude, which can come out like “Yeeoww! Get this dang cat off me!”, but they need this treatment. Without it, they might forget that the truck does not belong in the driveway. Its purpose is to deliver food and go away. 

15. When about to be shaken, scolded, and/or thrown out of some place you have spent considerable time and trouble getting into, always purr and cuddle. They expect you to put out your claws, so your affectionate response will completely bowl them over. Often they’ll end up petting you instead, even while others are bathing their burns or scratches and gathering up pieces of smashed furniture.

16. Always keep trying to talk to humans. Probably the closest they’ll ever get to understanding words is that, when you have told some story that shows up how much nicer and cleverer you are than other people, they’ll say “Little Bic-bic!” and rub behind your ears. Actually that’s close enough.

The Final Yowl

No matter how adorable you are and always have been, the humans will always adore other cats more than they do you. You will never be Magic. Nor Mac. Nor Dusty. Nor Buster. Nor Steelgray. Nor Mogwai. Nor Graybelle. Nor Pippi. Nor Biko. Nor Bootsie. Nor Beau. And, since most of those other cats lived before your time, you can’t even yowl at them for alienating the humans’ affection from you, the rightful object of all cat-adoration.

And when your grandkittens come along—adorable as they and their mother are—why do they get to live indoors? Just because you never wanted to be indoors, that’s supposed to make it fair that they get to spend more time closer to the humans, alienating their affections? Meow. Meow!



(Bisquit was a pet all her life, but otherwise seemed to agree with this classic book. So does Serena, who doesn't whine for attention, but nips.)

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