Wednesday, December 11, 2024

Web Log for 12.10.24

Health 

Should be a no-brainer: Humans should not be trying to "edit genes" outside of a sealed laboratory environment. Actually, I don't think we have any business trying to "edit genes" at all.


Hurricane

Wes Rhiner reports: Trailers are supposed to be on the way, but they're not there yet. Some people are  still living in tents because they don't want to take federal aid. Why wouldn't they? Because FEMA trailers are being offered to people who want to sign over their homes and be moved into some sort of government "housing" block? The number of trailers ordered does not match the number of houses lost; people are living in sheds, in cars, with friends and relatives. Rhiner discusses the complications that make this situation possible. The federal government's one-big-system-fails-to-fit-most is involved. The government program was for people who lost their houses, which they owned. Well, no points for guessing, the people in greatest need lost other people's houses, which they rented.


Nobody here has any disposable money left. We have Christmas coming on. That sounds horrible, but, playing devil's advocate...people who can afford to shop have shopped in places where buildings were damaged, even if they've not driven all the way to Asheville to do that. The road system makes it a lot easier to shop in Abingdon or Johnson City, which did see significant hurricane damage--not enough to compare to Asheville, but enough to need cash infusions. People did truck food and water out to the food banks until the food banks cried "enough." People do need to connect with their own families, too.

I wanted to go out and do the report Rhiner's done, because I'm a penniless cat lady whose holiday plans consist of clearing spaces for Nephews to put sleeping bags and letting them drive to stores for extra groceries as needed; I have time to blog about news items. Rhiner has the equipment set up to vlog about it. Videos are accessible to people who no longer read. So Rhiner's done what I wanted to do, better, and that's good. 

Those readers who are not penniless can still support relief missions. "Now is the time to go in and figure out ways to...get farmers back on their feet."

Phenology 

The Roads End Naturalists sound like the well-off Carolinians Rhiner mentioned. FEMA's not going to restore their second homes in the hills (unless of course they sell the places to displaced farmers who really were too close to the rivers). The logical thing for many of them to do is to move away from North Carolina. The REN don't say that that's why they moved, but they've done it, anyway. Wildlife from their new home:


I'm pleased! Montana is a much better place to live if you like coyotes.

Poetry

Total Trump Derangement Syndrome, made funny. At least, I believe the writer really is a sore-loser D, but he has to be making fun of his panic. Trigger warning: mentions body parts that are covered by a bathing suit.


Shopping

More than ten years ago...Google is finally showing me the link. Actually, some of the vintage posts their glitch has pulled up are posts I saw the first time around. Meanwhile, they're not doing too well at showing the current posts from blogs I follow, today. But this oldie seems relevant at this time of year.


She's a Bobo at heart! Bobo is the marketing word for my style, so I'm pleased by that too. Bobos (Bohemian Bourgeois) are people who spend as much as possible encouraging individuals' creative work, and as little as possible on mass-produced mundane stuff like clothes. I could afford much better clothes, that have held up longer, from charity stores than I'd get by shopping in boutiques or making my own clothes. And, bags? Wal-Mart has some excellent ones woven out of recycled water bottles. I liked the black ones best. They match my favorite $5 black canvas shoes. I still have about a dozen, so no Prada bags needed here.

Book Review: Christmas Kringle

Title: Christmas Kringle

Author: Danni Roan

Quote: "Are you sure the damsel really needed rescuing?"

Some time a long time ago, in the woods above a very small town in what might have been Pennsylvania, Sara fell out of a tree she was climbing to cut out the top for a Christmas decoration. The handsome neighbor boy rushed to help her stand up. She wasn't hurt but, living with a mother and sisters but no father, enjoyed the unfamiliar sensation of being close to a male body. The boy and girl were neighbors but lived on large enough farms that they hardly recognized each other. They immediately fell "in love." But her mother and his father hated each other.

They did some sneaking around and kissing before an old lady in the village below, called Polly Esther (the author says she really had an elder called that), started to tell all the children at the Christmas service the story of Romeo and Juliet, but hastily censored its tragic ending down to some ridiculous twaddle about "they decided to work for the good of the town." 

This is not historical fiction. The old lady is actually referred to as "Ms." Polly Esther. "Ms." was first used in the 1970s, though, to be fair, before that time some people might have pronounced "Miss" or "Mrs." like " Miz" Esther...but this was a dialectal variant based on sound not spelling, and it would have sounded like "Miss" Polly. "Ms.," in a context of long skirts and villages, is an anachronism but it's never quite clear whether this story is set in the 1920s, when country people still thought decency required dresses to be long, or the 1820s. This is pure fantasy set in some alternative world whose years are probably numbered "Oldtimey, or Circa Before Present." The anachronisms, however, supply the otherwise missing element of suspense. You know how a sweet romance ends. 

I can't give it any points for historical research but this is a sweet romance with a whte Christmas in it.

Legends of Gate City, Virginia (Now with the Missing Story Restored!)

Although its name dates back only as far as the 1890s, human activity in what became my home town dates back to early colonial days. It was well known to the English before Daniel Boone's famous trail into Kentucky passed through it. A main road is still called Daniel Boone's Trail, and a neighborhood is still called after Daniel  Boone.

In colonial days the high Blue Ridge Mountains were a natural boundary among tribal territories. There were Yuchi people to the south and east, Cherokees to the south and west, Shawnees to the north and west, and Delawareans and the occasional Iroquois to the north and east. Some people were also documented as "Mingo," which was a general name for indigenous people whose ancestors came from different tribes and nations, and "Melungeon," which was properly the name of a specific community whose genealogies included descendants of Vardy Collins and/or Shepherd Gibson, but the name was sometimes used to mean anyone of mixed race. Of these groups the Cherokee Nation recognized the Iroquois as a related ethnic group, considered the Yuchi and Delawareans uncivilized, and seem to have had the most wars with the Shawnees, but generally the land around the Virginia-Tennessee border was where people came to trade. Sometimes young men challenged each other to fight for sport, or people quarrelled about their trades. Mostly the place was peaceable. People don't find fields of arrowheads marking the sites of large-scale battles.

The Melungeons became legendary because White Americans wrote such ridiculous twaddle about them. They were newcomers to the area and tried to behave like good neighbors; they weren't at war with anybody. They were not and are not a particularly strange group. They were merely multiethnic. Their predominant cultural influence was English. From the unusual given names of the group's founders and the connection with a family called Moore, some have inferred that their freedom from race prejudice had something to do with their ancestors having been Gypsies, or Spanish Moors, or at least Italians, and thus having felt exotic even in England; but this is uncertain. Very little about the Melungeons ever was certain. At some point some Collins and Gibson heirs are thought to have married stragglers from banished indigenous groups and runaway slaves. 

Young people from the group are invariably described as handsome or pretty, often with references to the fineness of their bones as compared with stereotypically big-boned Cherokees. Older members of the group tended to wear well, some being disabled or disfigured by illness, many living well beyond age seventy. People wanted to believe that some very bad or at least grotesque-looking traits would appear in any of the so-called "triracial isolate" groups in the Eastern States. That didn't happen. Polydactylism is thought to have entered the group from the Bolling family, the best known member of which was Anne Boleyn. Where thalassemia, a "Mediterranean syndrome" of depression and illness, came in is unknown. One member of the group was the fattest woman in Tennessee in her time; more of them are slim. In the early twentieth century two of my father's cousins married Gibsons, and in mine one married a Collins, and those who presumed to comment seem to have agreed that they might have done worse.

"Melungeon" was what the group, clan, tribe, whatever, called themselves. It means mixed. It is not a term of contempt, but there used to be people here, and there still are a few, who use the name of some other group to disparage styles and behavior that they can't say are immoral, but that seem strange to them. For those people any name of any ethnic group might be considered a term of contempt. Some people who bought into theories about "race" wanted to believe that all members of all of America's "triracial isolate" groups would be subject to "strange" disease conditions. It can be gratifying to observe that, while some hereditary diseases are found in such groups, many individuals of "triracial isolate" descent live long healthy lives.

Melungeons have, however, been the topics of some ridiculous fictions and fantasies, along with a group who lived further north and called themselves Susquehannocks. (Susquehanna meant the river, Susquehannock meant a person who lived near it.) In the Bible an enemy chief the Israelites were able to defeat was a giant with twelve fingers and twelve toes. Some have extrapolated from that tidbit of history a belief that there are or were a "race" of evil polydactyl giant humans. The Susquehannocks weren't polydactylic and fossil remains indicate that they'd be described as big and tall people, but not pathological giants, today. Supposedly their average height was about six feet, men often taller, women usually shorter. They looked like giants because, at this period, European men measured their height in inches above five feet. My father, at 6'2", was taller than most Cherokee men but his White ancestors were blamed. The man known to cyberspace as my Significant Other, at 6'4", heard occasional remarks about ancestors who might have been Susquehannocks. 

Indigenous marriage customs were different from European, leading to the saying that Native Americans never got married. As a matter of historical record, they did. Cherokees had recognized the danger of inbreeding before contact with European immigrants. They had an idea that it was good for the nation if people married foreigners in alternate generations. On contact with Europeans, they made a rule that Europeans could enter their territory if married to Cherokees. This suggests that there were many Cherokee young people who were considered too closely related to marry each other. Many Southern families had, by the eighteenth century, a Cherokee grandmother. Even more claimed to have had a Cherokee grandmother, when actually the woman had belonged to a different tribe, after the Cherokees were forcibly resettled in Oklahoma and struck oil. 

On the other hand, patrilineal (and racist) record keepers may also have obscured whether the woman's mother had been Cherokee; Cherokee records were matrilineal. And, since the Cherokee word translated as "chief" meant any leader of a group of ten Cherokees, probably more of them than not really were chiefs' daughters--though not "Principal Chiefs'" close relatives.

In the early eighteenth century "Donelson's Indian Line" was marked out as the border between Cherokee and unclaimed land. It passed through what became Gate City. The land on the unclaimed side was not considered very valuable--too steep, too cold in winter, too hard to plough in summer, and too far from the Cherokee settlements in what became the Tennessee and North Carolina border. European immigrants did not always appreciate this land either. Many stayed for a short time before moving further west. Land might have changed hands ten times before enough people settled here to decide to organize a town. 

Because what became Scott County was a border area rather than anybody's home, the high cliff called the Lovers' Leap is usually said to have been named for a couple who were not allowed to marry each other because they belonged to warring tribes. Which tribes those were, nobody knows. Cherokee and Shawnee are usually considered most likely, but in fact, despite their frequent border conflicts, Cherokee and Shawnee people seem to have taken each other as they found each other. Some members of those groups did marry. The Yuchi tribe seem to have been more conscious of their separate identity. Maybe the couple were a Cherokee and a Yuchi. Anyway nobody knows their individual names, or more of their story than the cliche that has been attached to the highest cliff in every town, worldwide. Most urban legends really happened somewhere. I'm sure the Lovers' Leap story happened somewhere, but who knows whether it happened here.. 

Shawnee and Cherokee people seem originally to have been different enough ethnic groups that it would have been possible to tell by looking which group a person belonged to. By the time Europeans came here, their looks and lifestyles were similar. Cherokees considered themselves more civilized and, in some ways, they were, but people in both groups hunted and gathered the same foods. In their border wars the Cherokees probably did better, and both groups were big enough to coexist despite frequent border disputes, but in the end it could be said that the Shawnees, or a Shawnee, defeated the Cherokee Nation. 

This was a wretched woman whose name nobody seems to want to remember. The Shawnees were not, at this stage, a nation--though it could fairly be said that their chief Tecumseh made one of them, for a few years. They didn't have a civilization to speak of, so they couldn't have offered dual citizenship to multiethnic children if they had wanted to. They did not want to. They did not have that custom of outbreeding in alternate generations. This Shawnee woman took up with a Scotsman who signed his name "Robert Bench," who treated her badly especially after she gave birth to a little red-haired son. Neither the other Shawnees nor the other immigrants had much compassion on the abandoned wife and her two children, boy and girl; they went down to the border, and the woman took a job as domestic help in a Cherokee family. The little boy, who wrote his name "Bob Bench," was generally agreed to say it more like "Benge." He was smart, bold, and tough. He never forgave his father. His favorite thing was killing White men. His role in the Cherokee-US war seems more important when people from Gate City are telling it, but everyone agrees he was one of the two or three most feared leaders of Cherokee war parties. Brant and Tecumseh are usually regarded as bigger threats to Anglo-American society; though allies, they never claimed to be Cherokee. (Tecumseh was, however, briefly married to a Cherokee.)

The family who could afford a housemaid with children were obviously well off, and Benge claimed kinship by adoption to some of the most influential members of the Cherokee Nation, including Sequoya, who also had reddish hair. (Sequoya blamed a different White ancestor for his hair.) 

Benge was said to have found a silver mine, possibly in Scott County. That was probably a smarty-pants answer he gave people who were imprudent enough to ask where he got his gold and silver. The obvious answer was that he took the hoarded cash from the immigrants he murdered, though there is some possibility that he earned some of it by honest work or trade. Anyway, he was sometimes said to have barrels or big oldfashioned tubs full of gold and silver and sometimes jewels, buried in a cave somewhere. Later his treasure was said to have been found and hauled further east by Thomas Beale, who had gone to Colorado in search of gold and silver and, supposedly, stopped in Scott County on his way home. 

The Beale Treasure has never been reported as found. The usual explanations are that either it never existed, or it was found and not reported long ago. Tourists continue, nevertheless, to have a good time looking for it. Usually they look near Roanoke or Bedford. Some say that a previous owner, possibly Benge since he was evil enough, had laid a curse on the treasure, that this had something to do with Thomas Beale's death shortly after Beale reported having hidden a treasure. There are all kinds of stories about Beale and the clues to his treasure that he released to a newspaper, including a popular theory that Beale never actually had any treasure and left the clues as a hoax. The clues consisted of three code messages,  two of which were easily decoded, the third of which supposedly contained clear directions to the treasure and has never been decoded. 

Anyway, Benge became what the Cherokee called a chief: a leader of a group of at least ten Cherokee people. White people feared "Chief Benge" as they feared the wolves and cougars said to live in the Blue Ridge Mountains. When people are that deep in fear they can overlook details, such as Benge's not actually being a Cherokee. Real Cherokee chiefs, most notably Dragging Canoe, allied with other indigenous leaders like Joseph Brant, made war on the immigrants. Benge was a terrorist who, among other things, ate parts of the bodies of White men he had murdered. 

Another part of the legend was the story of Fanny Scott. (In the first typing of this story I confused her name, unforgivably, with her biographer's name.) Real Cherokee culture showed respect to women, as Shawnee culture did not. Benge's party attacked a settlement and slaughtered all the men, but a Cherokee who fancied Mrs. Scott's sweet youthful face proposed that they take the women and sell them as slaves. Mrs. Scott was apparently not raped or even badly beaten, and was given enough of the war party's provisions to maintain her strength, while the party walked southwest for a few months. At last her admirer worked up the nerve to propose to her--after all, she could have done worse, and her stamina would have won respect in Cherokee country. The widow Scott, however, turned him down and said she would walk back to Virginia alone. And she did. 

Then there was the story of Hungry Mother State Park. For some reason tourists always expect this story to be even worse than it is. Benge's party attacked a settlement near what became the town of Marion. In this battle the women tried to fight beside their men, and were killed along with them. The version of the story I learned at school had an English-speaking man who arrived after the battle finding alive only one toddler, who was trying to rouse his dead mother, repeating what the man reported as some infantile attempt to say, "I'm hungry, Mother! Hungry, Mother!" Another version has the mother and child having escaped from the battle, perhaps taken as prisoners or just hiding in the woods, and the mother having collapsed or died in the woods. Some say the woman's name was Molly, or Marley, or perhaps Molly Marley. In any case there is agreement that the toddler was found squeaking that he was hungry. I have never read or heard what became of the child. The story tourists seem to expect would have been very unlikely in the Blue Ridge Mountains, nor would the name of a nice place commemorate it if it had ever happened. 

Those who live by violence generally die by violence. Everyone in the Blue Ridge and Smoky Mountains wanted the honor of killing Benge. A relatively obscure pioneer, Virgil or Victor Hobbs of what would later become Estilville, took some helpers and provisions sent from Back  East and trailed Benge through what is now known as the Jefferson National Forest. They hiked along what is still a deliciously spooky wooded trail bordered by mostly inedible or poisonous plants, and Hobbs challenged Benge to a duel, supposedly on a big flat-topped boulder that can be seen from across the valley. Winning what was said to be a fair fight, Hobbs delivered Benge's scalp to the leaders of the new United States army. The boulder is still known as Benge's Rock and is marked with a giant American flag. Tough hikers can still walk out "Chief Benge's Scalp Trail" and climb up to the rock today; though, due to concerns about park liability, they are discouraged from climbing on Benge's Rock.

Nevertheless, the damage was done. Dragging Canoe might have been seen as an isolated malcontent but his cause being taken up by Benge (and some others) roused the immigrant hordes to wage a real war against the mostly peaceable Cherokee. A miserable Shawnee housemaid and her son can be blamed for the Trail of Tears. 

With the terrorist threat out of the way, the town was surveyed in the early nineteenth century by one of my ancestors and one of another local family's ancestors. It was named Estilville, in honor of a long-gone Judge Estil. Later it became the county seat of what was named Scott County, in honor of General Winfield Scott. Neither of them had actually lived here. Both were admired.


A portrait of Winfield Scott at what anyone else would have called retirement age, in 1855. Born in 1786, Scott was still active in the US Army in 1861. He was a big man, reportedly a little taller and considerably heavier than Lincoln. He ran for President of the United States four times. His abolitionist views were unpopular in eastern Virginia but less so out here on the Point. He was the commanding officer to whom General Lee addressed his resignation in the Civil War. It is interesting to consider the possibility that, if Lee and Scott had stayed on the same side, the War might have been won in a few weeks. Scott was a hero of the Mexican-American war and was regarded as a local man in the Point of Virginia. His illness and death contributed much to the way Northerners and Southerners felt, in 1862 and 1863, that the Confederate side might actually win.

Scott was less of a hero to the Cherokee, his Army career including "supervising" their deportation from their ancestral land. The many routes various indigenous groups took toward Oklahoma were known collectively as the Trail of Tears. From Virginia to Oklahoma was a long trek; many indigenous people died on the way. Cherokee people were, however, known for the stone-faced and stoical attitude they presented to outsiders, and some say the literal tears were shed by the biracial and White people watching them go. Mourning for their elders and children would have been a show of weakness to be concealed from enemies.

Not all Cherokees left when told to leave. The Eastern Band on the North Carolina border stayed in the woods. Nobody was looking for them and they stayed there for years. Euro-Americans now, however, thought of Cherokees as enemies, and the feeling was mutual. The Eastern Band didn't try to make war in any overt way, though there are legends like the one about  a Cherokee storekeeper who lived near a river and rented leaky boats to White travellers..It's hard to be sure about stories from that period. A real undeclared war had happened. Survivors would naturally have feared and detested each other. In order to survive the Eastern Band had to be a bit of a legend in their own time. Cherokee people did not look all that different from English people when they started wearing the same sort of clothes. Some people, whether mixed or "full blood" Cherokee, had been accepted as citizens of the United States rather than the Cherokee Nation. Most mountain people were self-sufficient and went into town only a few times in a year. So it was possible for people who were supposed to have left, to have stayed, and for a while they were left alone. Then fear and hate arose, accusations were made, the government sent out soldiers to enforce the law and banish the Eastern Band, and a man called Tsali ("Chief Charlie") offered to surrender if his group were granted the right to live on some land in peace. This is the story of Cherokee Town on the border between North Carolina and Tennessee. The version of that story they reenact, regularly, for tourists, is based on history, unlike The Trail of the Lonesome Pine, which everyone always recognized as sentimental fiction.

During the Civil War, all able-bodied Southern White men were drafted into the Confederate army--though not all of them fought. Some Scott County men and boys did enlist under General Lee. In fact some teenagers, who weren't supposed to be accepted as recruits but who wanted to prove themselves equal to adults, resorted to dodges like putting something with the number 18 on it in their shoes, so that they could say to recruiting officers under oath that "I am over eighteen." 

Such a boy was my great-grandfather--

"Great-great-grandfather, you mean?"

No; according to record he was my great-grandfather. He joined the Confederate army and was promptly captured by the enemy. Some other prisoners of war, older and more responsible, probably deserve credit for the party's escape with valuable information for General Lee...but they did follow my great-grandfather to the cave near his home. It is not a large cave, not easily found and not easily imagined to be a place where two dozen grown men could hide, but it is deep and the soldiers had had plenty of practice hiding by the time they reached the cave.

The Yanks tracked them to a little place called Bray, not ten miles west of Estilville and, at the time, about as close to becoming a town. Nobody in Bray admitted any ideas about where a lot of missing Confederates might have got to. There were some steep cliffs further west. Maybe the deserters had fallen over them. The Yanks were apparently starting to steam when they came to a house where the wife was from the North. She served them a nice dinner. The enemy soldiers sat down and refreshed themselves, then got up and burned all the other houses in the settlement except the one where they had been fed. 

People still live in Bray, though any aspirations to making it a town have long been forgotten. The bus I rode to school used to stop there. I have been inside the oldest house in Bray, which was built from hewn logs and looks pre-war all right. Some say the soldiers were served their dinner in the yard because there wasn't room for them inside the house, and this I could believe. Big houses were usually built either on the site of, or around, the kind of houses hill farmers had built in the 1860s.

The leader of the escapees waited for the Yanks to move on, then went into Estilville and posted his message to General Lee, whose letter of commendation to the escapees used to be displayed in the library. Some of them apparently went back east to rejoin the army. My great-grandfather, having seen enough of war to appreciate that he was still too young to fight legally, stayed in the cave until the war was over. Then he went home, apologized for running away, and promised to stay at home and do his chores if his parents would let him. 

So he stayed at home and did chores for another forty years. Then he inherited the farm and found someone to marry. She was only in her early twenties; he, in his mid-fifties. They produced fifteen babies, of whom eleven lived to be teenagers, nine to be active grandparents, and eight stayed in Gate City. All of the children who lived to grow up were said to look just like their father, and as the ones I had a chance to see all looked very much alike I believe this must have been true.

Around the time my great-grandparents married, Estilville officially renamed itself Gate City, seeing its role in history as a "gateway to the West." Stories about our history now enter the territory of what the grandparents of living people told them. 

(Most of the paragraph about Tsali did not display for the first few days this post was visible. It should be visible now.)

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

Web Log for 12.9.24

So apparently whatever cyberglitch caused my tabs to be lost, this weekend, is also causing Blogger to reopen links from my reading list that weren't showing up when they originally went live, years ago. Lots from 2020-2021, when my whole town had its server problems. Some from 2014, when I wasn't even online enough to notice the links that never showed in my Reading List. As a result I now have so many things on the Reading List that I really want to read, that they won't all fit on one screen at one time. Lots of poems and pictures...now we'll see how many I make the time to open today.

Animals

Like many people I just don't warm up to a pigeon. (This one was in Britain so he's not a Central Park pigeon.) They are clever birds, though, and pretty in their own way.


And this bird blogger doesn't warm up to herons. Meh. You'd think they'd look to other birds like dragons and demons, because they are bigger than most birds and they do eat other birds' young. The funny thing is that they don't, apparently. Herons isolate themselves when they're fishing; once fed they're more sociable, and smaller birds don't seem to mind their company.


Belated Sunday Sermon

For those who say "People don't choose to be (insert category of behavior Christians call sinful)"...Not consciously. Nobody says "I want to be an alcoholic" or "I want to be a single parent." People do say "I want to go pub-crawling with my school friends" or "I want to sleep over at my boy/girlfriend's house when no one else is there." Or, alternatively, "I can't afford to deal with that, so youall go on and have a big night out. I need to work on my term paper." They go ahead and sound pathetically uncool, and then next year they're the ones their formerly cool friends are asking for emergency loans to make up a child support payment. Sometimes it pays well to be a nerd.


Computers, Annoyance Factor of


Google says the line was first posted on Reddit by Shadow Seal, and someone commented, "If they smell intense fear or excitement it may even trigger a Windows update." (Lol. Does anything not trigger a Windows update?) The cartoon was added later, on Facebook, by Ribolov Istra. The meme's been in circulation for about five years. 

It still seems to me that, if keeping the Internet going and making it part of the workplace is considered a good thing, then programming computers in this sort of adversarial position toward their owners can't possibly be a good idea. 


Hurricane

You may reasonably want to know the position of this web site on those conflicting reports about how many people in North Carolina are still homeless. You may reasonably imagine that what I was doing on Friday was driving southward to have that look. The sad truth is that nobody else in Gate City wanted to do that. The people who do serious shopping have already shopped, many in places that saw enough hurricane damage to need major cash infusions for their businesses, and now they're freshening up their guest bedrooms. One person said, "Of course people in Asheville are probably still living in tents. Right on the main street of Weber City, under the bridge, we have a man living in a tent."

"Does he work, is he disabled, or is he on drugs?"

"I think mostly the last one."

And that seems to be the assumption my more prosperous acquaintances are making about people in North Carolina who are still camping in tents, too. And the possibility does undeniably exist. 

If any North Carolina readers know of a sober, employed or employable, person or family who is still in a tent, PLEASE SHARE. Obviously no details that might attract bad things/people, but please use either the comments section or the e-mail address at the bottom of the page to describe the situation (e.g. "Middle-aged couple, one working part-time, one job hunting, camping on site of ruined house near Littletown").


Scalzi fans recommend some places where people can just send money, if they so choose, in a comment sandwiched in among some suggestions some readers may find obnoxious, at:

Book Review: Memories of 'Friendship Inn

Title: Memories of Friendship Inn

Author: Jessie Newton

Quote: "She wanted to make something of her life, and she knew it wouldn't happen here in Five Island Cove."

In a group of five small islands near Nantucket, five girls have grown up together. They're out of high school and moving off in different directions. The story opens with an adventure as the girls row across the channel to another island, get stuck there in a storm, and stay in a hotel where one of them sneaks out with a boy, as is her habit. Boys are Ava Jane's antidepressant of choice. None of these girls thinks she's "n love" or has made much room for "love" in her plans, which seems improbable; real girls resolve to be that way, in small insular communities where all the young people at least feel like cousins, but in real life you'd think some of them would have gone to the mainland and Got Ideas. The plot then continues through a few more scenes showing each girl as the immature form of one of the characters in Jessie Newton's thirteen-volume (so far) series about these women as adults.  

There's a "sneak peek" forward into the series about them as adults. Yes, men and even children will be part of their adult lives, though the series seems to be more about their friendship--at least one of the women is already a widow when, thirty years later, the adventures of the children's club pick up again. 

This longish short story is most likely to appeal to people who are or want to be closely acquainted with these characters as adults. It is mostly an introduction and, after the teenagers get back home, it drags a bit. If you want to share the author's four imaginary friends and watch them coping with the addictions and emotional problems they're already forming as kids, this book is for you.

Monday, December 9, 2024

Bad Poetry: The Adventure That Did Not Happen

In another life I'd married one who always loved the land,
And we went to see the damage done by southern weather's hand,
And we towed a trailer rattling with tools of construction work
In a caravan of other people who thought shame to shirk,
And we did for damaged houses all that one clear week could do,
And were home again for parties others had looked forward to.

In real life he's dead, and people said, "If some are still in tents
The chances are that drink and drugs have eaten up their rents,
And in any case our shopping's done, and all our money's spent;
Let us settle down to celebrating, as God clearly meant."

And they may be right. They spent their money where it did some good.
Let them light their Christmas fires; there is plenty of dead wood.
And the worst thing about living in this grand historic State
Is that folks in the adjacent states think that we think we're "so great."
And nobody else but me has kinfolk living to our south,
And mine are farther east than that, so I will shut my mouth.
The shoe was on the other foot some forty years ago.
It may not be again for forty more, for all I know.

Web Log for 12.5-8.24

Through a weekend with another major browser crash, oh how I hate Microsoft...Theoretically it's still possible for me to read all the physical books and e-books I have accumulate. Not, however, in one year. Theoretically we have to figure that, allowing for eyeglasses at some point, I'll be reading for at least two more decades. So it's still possible for me to buy a book without thinking "Which book that I already have will I never be able to read?"...but not every day or anything.


Glyphosate Awareness 

Y'know, all those previous studies looked at mouse survival rates, not mouse brains...There are some potential flaws in this study. It might need replication. Or then again we might just look at the overall survival rates and admit that, although glyphosate harms each individual differently, it's done enough harm to helpless dumb animals. Including two-legged ones.


Housekeeping

I'm with Tom Cox. It's far better to be a hoarder than a tosser. (Which is why "tosser" is an Almost Unprintable Word in some countries, but this is the US so this web site doesn't give a toss.)

"Tossing" has some other slang meanings, but at this web site it describes the irrational, bizarre, and dysfunctional behavior of discarding useful things in the belief, fostered by merchants and thieves, that a house should look like a hotel, with lots of bare floor, probably covered in nasty carpet, and the things our modern society requires people to keep, such as keys and legal documents, easy for anyone to find. 

Should the old gentleman Cox called "The Collector" have moved his collections out of the way, or let someone more able-boded move them, enough to allow the house to be repaired? In an ideal world, I'd say he should. We do not live in an ideal world and he was probably deterred from maintaining the actual house, if not by lack of money, then probably by some idiot babbling about "clutter" and "decluttering."

In your house, the things you find useful and/or beautiful are not "clutter." They have value for you and for anyone who deserves to be in your house. People who show confusion about this are a particularly nasty form of "clutter" and should be thrown out. You have a right to choose whether to display some of your belongings in the room where you receive visitors, in an aesthetically pleasing arrangement where they can be admired, or to stack them up warehouse-fashion, in a jumble that makes it impossible for people who shouldn't know where to find the valuables to guess where the valuables might be. 

"But what if a stack falls on top of somebody?" You didn't invite this "somebody" to be pawing through that stack, did you? If a stack falls on a burglar and breaks his ribs, maybe that will give him some better ideas about things to do for quick cash. If busybodies can't see everything in your collection, that may be even better. 

Some people have a morbid fear of depth. When surfaces aren't flat and bare, like bare walls or flat Astroturf "lawns," they imagine things they are afraid of lurking behind every plant and in every cabinet. This is a treatable mental illness for which these people need encouragement to seek help. They should not be allowed to let their phobia lower the quality of other people's lives. One reason why rooms that are not actually being rented out should not look like hotel rooms is that we don't want to be responsible for mental patients, so we don't want to encourage them to hang around our homes.

I, personally, like depth. I like living in a place with hills and valleys and trees and cliffs and caves. I like houses that have closets and cabinets and niches and shelves and basements and maybe even a secret passage somewhere. I like books with layers of subplots and meanings, too. I like clothing with deep pockets.. I recognize that bare grassland, and bare hotel rooms with empty space for people to bring in their own baggage, and short simple stories, and postcards as distinct from proper letters in envelopes, appeal to some people and have their reasons for existing, but I like things that will continue to reward my attention in a variety of ways for a good long time. To me "flat and bare" equals "boring."


Does this preference for shallowness over depth tie into people's whole worldview? 


Shopping 

Scalzi's list grows:



...and I ought to add the Friday post about charities Scalzi's readers endorse, but MICROSOFT FOULED UP AND LOST MY TABS, BOOHOOHOO! and that makes me feel less charitable.

Book Review: Fighting Happily Ever After

Title: Fighting Happily Ever After

Author: Elena Aitken

Date: 2020

Quote: "A wedding planner who didn't believe in love!"

It is possible to feel that you're laughing at the three couples of clueless young people in this book more than you're laughing with them. They spend a lot of time crying and worrying about things no one else would take seriously. All's well in the end, of course, even if one of the three couples end up not marrying each other...guess which one? 

Not Hope and Levi; they're already married, and Hope has no regrets even in the middle of a difficult pregnancy. So, will Faith or...wait for it...Stephanie be married at the end of the book? Aitken undertakes the challenge of adding suspense to a romance novel. Though you know there's going to be a sequel in which the other one will be married, anyhow.

Faith is afraid to love anyone (does this ever happen in real life?} because, as a teenager, she discovered that her happily married parents did fight. Worse, her lifelong boy friend, Logan, whose cousin Levi is married to Faith's twin sister Hope, is one of those little boys who express affection by teasing and needling little girls. 

We as a culture need to do something about this. Little boys are becoming baby-daddies before they learn that little girls never did like to be teased. Who knows how many children might have a chance to grow up in unbroken homes if nobody had told their fathers that it was acceptable or even cute to annoy little girls. We know little boys mature slowly and develop empathy slowly, so we need to be teaching them...first by exposing them to domestic animals who could teach them, before they meet girls of their own size. "That hen/dog/cat told you to back off. You didn't. You deserved that little nip. When anyone tells you to back off, you must back off. Likewise, when people tell you to stop talking to them, you must shut your mouth up tight, and when they tell you to leave them alone, you must leave them completely alone, not even looking at them. No means No. No is not negotiable. If you ever do meet a person who says No when she means Yes, which some people used to do a long time ago, you will just have to teach her to do what she says, say what she means, because one thing leads to another." And then when they meet little girls, we need to enforce this. "Did you see her move back away from you? Did you hear her say 'Leave me alone'? LEAVE HER ALONE. If you want to talk to her because you like her, don't do things that make her not like you. You must not even look at her until she talks to you. Don't ever speak to any person who is not looking at you and smiling. If you have to scream for help, raise your face toward Heaven and don't look at any individual person until someone speaks to you! In a civilized country this will keep you out of prison; in some countries it will save your life." 

Arguably the world needed a Canadian novel that shows how close a character comes to losing his True Love by teasing, because, a hundred years ago, Anne of Green Gables...lived in a different world. We need to make that absolutely clear. Delightful character. Different world. 

Anyway, even at paperback novel length, Aitken manages to weave in a secondary plot. Faith and Logan are not just fake dating, but fake living together, in order to attract Stephanie Starz (does even Hollywood give actors stage names that bad, in real life?) to Faith's business for the movie-star wedding of the decade. Anyone could have told them that either fake or real living-together-as-a-couple-before-marriage is no way to promote a wedding business, though if only some more of either family were living in the house, to support the claim that they were living-together-not-as-a-couple, maybe... 

But Stephanie is too young to think through these things, just like Faith and Logan and Hope and Levi, so she's sure that being married at the place where twins met their True Loves will bring her marriage good luck...well. She and her fiance have some living and learning to do, too. And, to find out which couple Aitken thinks are ready for marriage right away and which couple need to think it over, you'll just have to read the book.

I laughed...even though sometimes I was laughing at characters crying. Elena Aitken has sold a lot of romance novels, many featuring the romantic appeal of rural or small-town Canada, though they sell on this side of the border too. This novel is part of a series that's done reasonably well too. If the fake living together (yes, it does tempt them into bed together) doesn't put you off, you're likely to enjoy this novel and want the rest of the series. Aunts are supposed to recommend sweet wholesome romances where we never see unmarried couples undressing each  other. Sorry. But I did laugh.


Book Review: A Fatal Folio

Title: A Fatal Folio

Author: Sophia Love

Date: 2020

Quote: "[T]he type of books you deal with, as amazing as they are, simply don't sell."

Lex's employers, a publishing company, regretfully let her go because serious nonfiction isn't selling as well as bogus celebrity memoirs. Her friends and family don't want to encourage her dream of running a small unprofitable bookstore. So she goes to work in someone else's small unprofitable bookstore. The store handles rare, valuable, and occult material--the kind of books one can imagine would even contain a spell that might kill someone if spoken aloud. When a customer who handles such books is murdered, Lex feels obliged to solve the mystery. She tried reading a few lines aloud to see what language they were in...

It goes with the territory: Lexi will solve the mystery. By the end of the series the author vacillated between calling "Witching Place" or "Curious Bookstore," no doubt she'll own the store and be married to one of her new friends in the New England village of Incanton. Readers will enjoy the cozy mystery and quirky New England village atmosphere, all along the way. It's not a realistic story about our world. It's a fantasy world, funnier than ours, and more entertaining.

If you like cozy mysteries with bookstores and hints of black magic, this series is for you.

Butterfly of the Week: Brown's Graphium

This week's butterfly is not especially rare or endangered, within its limited range, but neither the butterfly nor its range has been well documented. It is found in the south Pacific islands sometimes called the Bismarck Archipelago, including New Guinea and several smaller islands. Although its primary habitat is small islands where relatively little human activity takes place, the species has been found visiting Thailand, Borneo, Sumatra, Singapore, and the Philippines too. Beyond its resemblance to three other Graphiums (wallacei, hicetaon, and sandawanum) very little has been written about it. It's common enough, though, to be mentioned in tour company literature as one of the exotic sights people can expect to see on a tour of these islands. 

It has not yet been well documented by photographers. Pictures of this species are of museum specimens.



Photos from Swallowtails.net, showing upper and lower sides of wings. The wingspan is usually about three inches; females are slightly larger than males.

It was named after a part-time naturalist, the Reverend Doctor George Brown, not for its color--but, fortuitously, its color does happen to be brown, or a brownish black that fades to brown. It has the Swallowtail wing structure, but not the "swallow tails" on the hind wings. George Brown was an English-born resident of New Zealand. His visits to the islands were officially missionary journeys, with the objective of identifying places where mission churches might be tolerated. When he had any time to spare, he observed, collected, and documented island wildlife. He sent butterfly and other specimens back to rich collectors in England, who wrote them up in the official records, and was rewarded by having a few things, such as this butterfly, named after him.

More may be known about George Brown, today, than about any of the dozen or so butterflies he was the first to collect. (Most are now regarded as subspecies of butterflies that had been documented on bigger, more familiar islands.) No ordinary British clergyman, content to sip tea, raise funds, and hope to marry a rich parishioner's daughter, Brown climbed mountains and made first contact with people who had never seen an Englishman before. He was credited with rescuing the wife of a cannibal chief. The chief accused his wife of talking to other men, violating tribal customs, and had begun trying to beat her to death when Brown approached the settlemen. Brown bought the badly injured woman for a steel axe head and had her injuries treated, but apparently she didn't live long anyway. Such incidents made Brown many enemies but he persisted in travelling and preaching in spite of credible threats that local people would beat him to death and eat him. (They did not have big pots, but roasted prey, including criminals and foreigners, on open fires.) 

The adventure didn't end there. Another cannibal chief, perhaps hoping for more axe heads, murdered four Fijians from Brown's party; his village roasted and ate them, and told Brown they would do the same to the Samoan and White people in the party who had planned to come out and join the Fijians. In a burst of indignation Brown organized a party of Fijian, Samoan, British and New Zealand men to execute the wrath of God on the cannibal village, burning all the buildings and killing some of the men. His fellow Christians told Brown it would be better not to waste missionary effort on such people. They exonerated him of blame for his private act of war, however, sympathizing with his feelings about his Fijian colleagues.

Graphium browni has one known food plant: Annona mercuriata, a small tropical fruit tree. Unlike some Swallowtails this species is said to stay in the deep woods where it is rarely seen by humans. It looks a bit like a dead leaf, especially in deep shade. It is more cautious about going out to drink water, clean or brackish, than many Swallowtails are. 

Instead of "puddling" with all the other single male butterflies in the neighborhood male browni choose a territory on the edge of the forest, in a clearing, and fly at anything that enters their territory. Eventually a female of their species does. After mating the female flits back into the woods to find suitable leaves for the caterpillars. The male would mate again if he could, but he probably can't, because, like all large monophagous butterflies, this species is well dispersed. 

These butterflies fly fast and startle easily enough that little has been written about their behavior, or their occasional meetings with humans. The early stages of their lives are unknown.

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Belated Feline Friday Post: Shades of Gray

So I was offline on Friday. I wasn't ill; my computer was. My old faithful desktop computer, \has been in the shop a few times; it has one recurring glitch, and it's run out of memory a few times, and it showed some damage after the great electric power grid failure two weeks ago. It's been my companion for about twenty years. It has Windows ME, the quintessential, almost perfect, home office computer program. Not having it around the house feels all wrong. Especially since the other desktop computer, which succumbed to heat exhaustion last summer, is still in the shop. 

Anyway, Friday was the first really cold day of winter. Getting the desktop computer down the icy road and into the shop was quite an adventure, and took the core right out of the day. 

The animals still need homes, so here they are, the cutest pictures of adoptable gray animals...There is no cute story about why I picked gray for the theme this week. Because there are a lot of adoptable gray cats, and we've not featured them lately, that's why. The dog Petfinder was nudging me to post is black.

Zipcode 10101: Bambi from the Bronx

He has an interesting story. About a year old, he sounds quite social, always letting his sister have the first treat. Loves to snuggle, never hisses. So why have they waived the adoption fee? Some true humanitarian wants this cat not to be spoiled by the shelter experience, maybe. Or maybe they want you to ask about that sister. Anyway, it might be worth inquiring about the fine print in his adoption contract. 

Zipcode 20202: Bailey from DC 


Her adoption fee is on the steep side but there's a discount if you take one of her two siblings; a further discount if you take both might be negotiable. They're spring kittens. The adoption contract includes mandatory sterilization, with a deadline and a price reduction if you schedule ahead with their vet. 

Zipcode 30303: Gracie from Marietta 


Another one of three gray kittens. They're all the flat gray that is really the diluted version of black so they're called Ashley, Ashton, and Gracie. They are in a foster home. They are bouncy-pouncy roly-poly cute things. 

Now the dogs:

Zipcode 30303: Banks from Smyrna 


His web page: https://www.petfinder.com/dog/banks-73012519/ga/smyrna/rescuing-rescues-ga1100/

Thought to be a Husky and Shepherd mix, Banks should one day grow up to look like a serious police-type dog, but as a spring puppy he is said to be a playful, frivolous litle boy. (Well, little relative to his parents; he weighs 48 pounds and will probably weigh more next year.) 

Zipcode 20202: Sally from DC 


"Shepherd mix." She sounds more like an Australian Shepherd than a German Shepherd but she's described as a snuggler who loves affection, attention, and adventures. If you want to rev up your metabolism with a sprint or at least a good brisk walk five times a day, this is the dog for you. Aussies can have a serious, protective, let's say very very assertive side, but they most often find themselves in shelters because people who like the look of their coats aren't energetic enough to keep up with the dogs. They tend to like people who have been told things like "Slow down" and "Wait for me" and "You make me tired," by other humans. They try to be patient with the slower kind of humans, but sluggish people aren't capable of being equally tolerant with them.

Zipcode 10101: Dalma from Puerto Rico 


This four-year-old, forty-pound crossbreed is described as a sweet and noble dog who aims to please.  The usual deal: out-of-town pets come with a steep adoption fee if you pay for them to be transported to the city where they're advertised. Sometimes a lower fee is negotiable if you're closer to where they are, and sometimes someone wants to visit the city. 

Bonus Dog: Sable from Kingsport 



Sometimes Petfinder has a suggestion for these posts. This is a very special dog for a particular person Out There. Sable the Squishmaster is a super snuggler. He likes to be as close to his human as possible and has to be led out for walks to keep his preferred position, the "sofa squish," from becoming painful for the humans involved. He will stick tight to his human. This is because he is blind. 

Friday, December 6, 2024

Book Review: Caroline Saves the Blacksmith

Title: Caroline Saves the Blacksmith

Author: Nina Jarrett

Date: 2023

Publisher: Rogue

Quote: "How would she ever forgive herself for what she had done?"

Well, she'll do it again. If you agree with me that much of the charm of the Regency Romance genre is that upper-class young people at least pretended to be innocent before the wedding, this will be another unsatisfactory read. It revolves around not only Christian holidays, songs, and blessings, but a Christian theme--acceptance of grace. Still, it's a little too frank and detailed about the adventures of a girl who lacks sexual self-control to be considered a Christian book. 

William, the best rated blacksmith in town, suffers an injury while sneaking out at night to mend a poor old woman's roof. Rushing off to deliver a baby, the doctor knocks on the nearest door and sends Caroline out to play nurse. Enforced proximity leads them to spill their secrets. William can't forgive himself for sending another man to the war in his place; Caroline can't forgive herself for having lost a previous job by being caught having sex in the stable with the young lady's fiance. (Unlike much of this plot, this detail I believe: young men pretending to be innocent and romantic with the young ladies they intended to marry very often seduced, or just raped, servants.) William doesn't care that Caroline is a verifiable Bad Girl, in an era totally devoted to the idea of Good Girls (who were asexual for life) and Bad Girls (who, once they discovered that they liked sex, probably lost all moral standards altogether and would soon be found selling other people's silverware for cheap, toxic whisky). There are documented cases of men who married "ruined" ex-maids, actresses, and even outright harlots, even at this period, but they are few and William hardly seems the type. At this period it seems to have been more likely that, like the European prince who really was allowed to choose a commoner at a ball, a dying man wanted to leave his estate to a woman with no other matrimonial prospects.

But this is a spicy romance from the British sector of the Lost Planet of Nice, where the Prince will probably never become King because everyone's having so much fun with his Regency. (In this book, shockingly, his coronation is scheduled. His world is coming to an end!) It may never have happened, but it deserves to have happened. Romance readers who don't mind a few words-that-attract-bad-things-to-computers probably won't complain about the period's standard word for a male bird being used in contexts that have nothing to do with poultry.

There were four predecessors and will be at least five follow-ups to this romance, each marrying off a different couple in a different part of England, in which the characters are all acquainted with one another. Toward the end of this one we hear of a baron having been murdered; in the next volume we're promised the story about whodunnit and why.

Thursday, December 5, 2024

Web Log for 12.4.24

Links and two rants.

Communication

These videos were posted for the benefit of the Christian Left. They can serve the Christian Right equally well.


The advice to job seekers is particularly provocative. Body language is easily misread; when I'm at home alone, or here on this screen porch, I draw in around the computer, then stretch and spread out, in a cycle that repeats a few times in every hour. The pattern of movements changes significantly when temperature and humidity change. I stretch more in sweaty weather and add movements that center around the heater in freezing weather. It has nothing to do with other people, except that I have been known to point both middle fingers at the screen if it blinks as if it were trying to snap an unauthorized picture...I may in fact feel weaker when hunched over a desk or a garden row or a handful of sock knitting needles, and powerful when I stretch, but I can't say I've ever actually noticed. Actually, when I've been hunched over the computer in a writing trance for hours, I feel as if I've been flying on one of Anne McCaffrey's warm-blooded, warm-hearted dragons. But if you readers feel a need to remind yourselves that you're able to defend your theses or competent to do a job, you might want to try stretching in the bathroom first.

Anyway, as an independent contractor I feel less stressed by interviews--usually done at the beginning of the first work day, where it's much harder for employers to waste my day and then hire someone else!--than people who are trying to convince a total stranger that they want to work for a corporation where they probably, in fact, will not want to work. I think this is a bigger consideration than people usually want to acknowledge. Brains can be injured, and can recover, just like the rest of the body. The speaker's IQ score dropped after her injury; by now it's probably back where it was, maybe higher. For her there really was a time when she had to convince people that she was able to do what she'd been doing and training to do for years. Most job seekers don't really have that kind of reason to reconsider whether they are or can become competent. Sincerely religious job seekers, however, do have reasons to reconsider whether they want to become "the best fit for the job" in other ways. 

Do you want to work for an organization that lobbies for more restrictions on property rights? 

Do you want to work on computers that will be used to direct planes to firebomb fishing villages, or synthesize new chemical compounds that will kill some of the test subjects who volunteer to try them as medication? 

What about a hospital where the last thing they want is a nurse who sincerely cares about patients, because a research hospital where patients and families never receive a bill is the place where they test the new compounds that are going to kill some of the patients,  and the testing process may require a treatment to be given to a hundred patients even after the nurse has watched the first fifty patients die? 

Even if you have been seen in church on Sunday, respect other people's right to go to church on Sunday, and think companies like Chick-fil-A and Hobby Lobby are doing a good thing by giving all of their employees the same day of rest the employers take, do you really want to work for an organization that gives everyone Sunday as a day of rest but might, for that reason, demand that you work on your day of rest? (Members of the Seventh-Day Adventist church are encouraged to quit jobs for that reason. I never quit a job because I was asked to work on Saturday; I'm not a member of that church. I did tell some good steady employers that if I worked for them on Saturday it would be on an unpaid volunteer basis, as community service.) 

What about a department store where managers are expected to model what's in the "women's fashions" department, and everything there violates your standards of ethical self-advertising? (Talking to you, J.C. Penney, and the year all your "dressy" women's shoes had hooker heels. I've not bought anything at J.C. Penney since that year, either.) 

It can be hard to find a position an ethical person wants to "become." I wouldn't go so far as to say "Whoever would be a man (or a decent human being) must be an independent contractor," but at my no-BS pay grade that does seem very close to being true.

In the 1980s when jobs were Out There, I answered lots of ads for "full-time career jobs," said frankly "I'd like to try this on a temporary basis, as an odd job," did the job for a few days, and either did it for a few days again later, or never went back. A few people asked, considering the jobs I kept for a long time, "You seem so content with such a menial job...did you have some sort of mental breakdown and become unable to use your education?" I did not. A more relevant question, for more job seekers and working people I expect, would be "Isn't it a source of spiritual relief just to paint walls or wash cars or stock shelves, rather than be part of an organization that works toward a despicable goal?" It is. I worked for some very interesting people, as far as I could ethically go with them--including a group whose goal was to strengthen the UN into a potential global government. (Briefly.) I had the opportunity to know and love some people whom the world remembers, if it does, for political statements with which I disagree. I am my own person and only ever managed to convince either myself or the interviewer once that I actually wanted a full-time career job with an organization--that lasted for a month or two. What I could convince myself and them was true was, and still is, that I can do one single, simple, objectively evaluated task to a higher objective standard than other people. That's true, and that's all I try to believe at least until I've worked in the same place for a few years. 

Glyphosate Awareness

First a word about chlorpyrifos, one of the other poisons greedhead farmers knowingly inflict on humans.


We've seen the document already, but a few new bits of news about its reception are now available. Viva Mexico! Viva Sheinbaum Pardo!


Morality 

We had a big national quarrel about same-sex marriage. People vented emotions they attached to their opinions about its being moral or immoral to have homosexual relationships. That never was the point. The point is that we have laws, written in a misguided attempt to get people to formalize their marriages the other parents of their children, that discriminate against single people. Some people attached emotions to the opinion that bachelors are all young, promiscuous, selfish people. Well, some bachelors are young, promiscuous, selfish people. Others are not. However, our discrimination against single people does not penalize young bachelors so much as it penalizes older people. It kicks in when people need extensive medical care and when they die and leave behind property. It penalizes the conditions of illness and widowhood, not the conditions of selfishness or promiscuity. And half of all married couples are going to be widows.

By letting the homosexual lobby distract our attention to the handful of people who actually wanted same-sex marriage, we tolerated, and legalized, and formalized, and perpetuated, discrimination against widows. I was talking about this nineteen years ago because I became a widow prematurely. Now more people are noticing that they, too, are likely to become widows and that we've set up laws that deliberately discriminate against widows. 

Here's a young woman arguing that friendship is as important as sex is. Well, to the young and fertile, it may not feel that way. When we're building our nests, hormones fill us with emotional feelings about our mates and young. But reality is that, later in life, sex hormones subside. Most of us become postsexual. Postsexual adults may still feel that the parents of their children are their best friends. That's the ideal outcome of marriage. About half of all postsexual adults, however, outlive the other parents of their children. Their children may or may not be their best friends, or their caretakers. (Some people feel that it's indecent to receive nursing care from their children.) So, whatever our beliefs about sexual ethics may have been, they're not very relevant to the question of who supervises the hospital and nursing home staff, who does any home nursing that may be needed, or who gets the house when people don't leave a big estate but do leave a house, or a car, some petty cash and paraphernalia, to somebody and the people they know are venal enough to quarrel about who gets what. 


People in Maryland let themselves be told that common-law marriage was unethical in some way. It is no more ethical or unethical than church or courthouse marriage. People who choose to waste the money can have a courthouse wedding today and a no-fault divorce tomorrow. A big church wedding with all the traditional expenses may help people stay together, or it may not. More relevant is the question whether people are in fact best friends and do in fact have enough emotional maturity to endure the misery of being each other's home nurses. Many people are not and do not, and calling their sexual relationships marriage does not create either the emotional bond or the emotional maturity that is not there. The wedding party that celebrates good intentions becomes an especially bitter memory for some people; the individual some adults hate most bitterly is the ex-spouse of their youth. It would make better sense to celebrate the fact when people who have or have not paid for a certificate of marriage have actually stayed together for seven years, or ten. Even that does not necessarily prove that those people are each other's best friends; we recognize no-fault divorce as preferable to murder.

But even when people have big church weddings, the morality of the situation is that people have a right to designate their own Significant Others at the far end of life, regardless of their long-ago sexual choices. They may still be married; they may be the half of the couple who dies first, and by the time they die, their beloved spouses may be wheelchair-bound. They may be widowed. They may be old selfish bachelors who never even wanted to share a bed with another human being. And it may have been raining where they were in 1962, or it may not. And they may or may not own a T-shirt advertising a music festival. None of that makes a particle of difference to the questions of who does the home nursing, who stays with them in the hospital, or who gets the house. (The virtuous wheelchair-bound widow may not want the house.) Everybody reaches the end of life in a different situation, and has to answer those questions in a different individual way.

We need laws that preemptively rule out any attempt on the part of any government to meddle in these personal decisions; that establish a right to autonomy (the individual's right to choose medical care and caretakers) and to privacy (the individual's right to choose when to disclose details of medical conditions and estate plans). This is a moral issue. It needs to be reconsidered regardless of whether or not the person has ever had sex with anybody under any circumstances. 

It needs, specifically, to exclude government officials as potential heirs or caretakers. 

Property Rights

We all have to choose our focus--or be chosen by it; glyphosate chose me. For those who want to get back onto  property rights:

Book Review: A Lighthouse Cafe Christmas

This month's book selections will not allow a full month of Christmas books, but I'll try to post as many Christmas book reviews as possible.

Title: A Lighthouse Cafe Christmas

Author: Jennifer Faye

Date: 2021

Publisher: Lazy Dazy

ISBN: 978-1-942680-17-8

Quote:  "She hadn't forgiven him for upending their wedding plans."

It's a clean small-town romance, so that's all you really need to know. He never was able to tell her why he walked away. She assumed there was another woman. All will be forgiven when he tells her the real reason.  There are a few other characters and subplots that tie this story in with a series of other romances set in the same small town.

Some books have to be the average. I rate this one of the average books. Nothing stands out as a particular delight but, if you want to read a sweet love story set at Christmas in an East Coast town that gets snow, you'll enjoy it.