A Fair Trade Book
Title: No Longer Alone
Author: Joan Winmill Brown
Author's IMDB page: http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0935306/
Date: 1975
Publisher: Fleming H. Revell
ISBN: 0-89066-010-7
Length: 160 pages
Illustrations: black-and-white photos
Quote: “My beautiful, fun-loving mother…had died in
childbirth. The baby, who was to have been the ‘surprise,’ was dead also.”
Psychoanalytical theory traced everything back to some sort
of emotional trauma in a person’s early life. Losing her mother was Brown’s
“trauma,” easy enough to spot. Her emotional feelings of loneliness and
despair, which reached the level of clinical depression, weren’t alleviated
merely by remembering the trauma, as psychoanalysts hoped. Some readers might
suspect that her “cure” for depression was growing up, and realizing among
other things that she did not actually want to be a psychiatric patient…but
there’s no question in Brown’s mind that her path back to mental health
involved a spiritual experience.
Similarities between Brown’s early training as a singer and
actress, and those of Julie Andrews, highlight the two great differences in
their stories. Andrews belonged to a family of performers; and Andrews had a
world-class talent. Apart from that, both grew up during the war, attended a
variety of somewhat inadequate schools, got office jobs and performing gigs at
an early age.
Perhaps partly due to having suppressed natural grief for so
long, Brown lacked the instinct that guides most introverts to do what a doctor
had to tell Brown to do: pace herself, be selective about spending time around
other people, spend quality time with herself. Feeling almost rebellious because
she didn’t know how to pace herself either on a job or as the mother she wanted
to be, Brown pushed and pushed until one day she found herself boohooing
uncontrollably on a bus. “Must be drunk,” fellow passengers hissed. A doctor
prescribed one of those wonderful “sedatives” of the late 1940s and early 1950s
that left so many of the Greatest Generation twitching and homeless. Brown
apparently survived the lethal-chemical-experiment gantlet and was able to find
a husband, have children, and market her talents in the United States thanks to
Billy Graham’s international gospel crusades, with which she and her husband
worked.
Highlights of No
Longer Alone include a splendid example of a drug-free, healthy childbirth:
“I thought it was something I had eaten…Three-year-old Bill… [said] ‘Dennis the
Menace’ is coming on next, Mom, and that will make you feel better!’ I realized
my own little ‘Dennis’ was on the way…In a mirror I saw my second son being
born.” It was followed by postpartum depression, “an award-winning attack of
the blues,” as second son (named David, not Dennis) became ill and Brown’s
father died around the same time. This time Brown was able to feel her feelings
at the time, and move on through them into the rest of her life.
Brown remained primarily a British actress, best known in
the U.S. as part of the Graham Crusade team. Though Christian-phobia kept their
association from being publicized, Brown reports that Graham encouraged her to
share her story with Judy Garland, but the doomed pillhead actress replied,
“[Y]ou had a need. I don’t have any needs!” We all know what happened to
Garland a few years later. Brown thinks the overdose could easily have been
accidental. “When I had taken my phenobarbital tablets, I would sometimes
forget if I had had them.”
By 1975 Brown had reached an age at which actresses of her
generation normally retired, although she hadn't really, so this was a fairly typical end-on-a-high-note
memoir for the period. It’s recommended to anyone interested in the history of
Hollywood, of Graham Crusades, of movies, of women, and/or of mental illness.
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